What would you do lads?

[Andy]

Just to get this straight, this is most certainly no depressive rant type thing.

But anyway, I've had my eye on someone for a while, nice girl, different than the others. I work with her and have spent the last few weeks just Piss-arseing about at work with her. I ended up sleeping with her a few nights ago (but that's not really important)

The problem is I really quite like her but at the same time am so uninterested in a relationship due to being head screwed by an ex a while back, which I'm fully over now.

I was kinda wondering if any of you playe.... Sorry Gents, have been faced with this kinda thing and could offer any advice.

LADadvice is also appreciated.

Love from Andy Pandy.

[Willo]

Go with the flow see what happens failing that fu** buddy's

[samass]

Squirt a load if ky jelly in her poop chute and drive it home.

[ash240970]

Talk to her about how you feel - she will most probably have more respect for you if you tell her how you feel and be honest with her than if you string her along and then you find yourself getting in too deep and deciding to bail out and leaving her heartbroken.
There will never be a right moment to have this conversation with her but the sooner the better bud and don't look at the ground when you tell her look her in the eyes and she will know you are sincere.
It may hurt her feelings and she'll call you all the bar stewards under the sun for a few wks but her mates will soon tell her actually you did the right thing and shes over reacting or she may be completely cool about it and say at least you've got the bollox to tell me now and its fine cos I'm happy with the way things are.
Whichever way she handles it bud you can walk with your head held high cos you did the right thing.

[THE_Liam]

Yeah, that ^^^ basically. Tell her you don't want a relationship but you wouldn't mind chucking your muck up her flange for a while.

[Jonny81191]

The problem is I really quite like her but at the same time am so uninterested in a relationship due to being head screwed by an ex a while back, which I'm fully over now.

Tell her exactly that^

Alternatively, keep going as you are and have fun

[cwspellowe]

Friend zone her, tell everyone on here about it every minute of the day, piss her off then get a boat with another lass.

[Matt]

Keep knobing her? Never know you might feel the need for relationship soon enough.



Trust me i got head f*cked by the ex, but I've managed to turn shit around. And have actually found someone that is amazing. Taking shit real slow

[CJ_Derv]

Dont talk about feelings and shit soo soon!!! just go with the flow see what happens 9 times out of 10 work relationships dont work out as you spend most of your day in work and then youd be spending farrrrrr too much time around them!!

[Mattcheese31]

if she's hot . . pass her this way . .>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> . .

[MrsMidnight]

Andy... Most girls are dicks and will be dickish to most people... Turn gay so you don't have to deal with female shit... SORTED!

[Kimmie]

Keep knobing her? Never know you might feel the need for relationship soon enough.



Trust me i got head f*cked by the ex, but I've managed to turn shit around. And have actually found someone that is amazing. Taking shit real slow

Judging by our conversation before Alexis, and your recent FB Status I don't think slow is the word.....

[cully]

LMAO

good suggestions

Squirt a load if ky jelly in her poop chute and drive it home.

Andy... Most girls are dicks and will be dickish to most people... Turn gay so you don't have to deal with female shit... SORTED!

[the milkman]

Seriously andy was you really expecting serious advice from us of all people? How you have much to learn!






But I just not mention a thing to her and leave it as it is for a while

[Connor]

Friend zone her, tell everyone on here about it every minute of the day, piss her off then get a boat with another lass.

Really? Noone else?

[CJ_Derv]

Andy... ALL girls are dicks and will be dickish to most people... Turn gay so you don't have to deal with female shit... SORTED!

talking from experience??

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the milkmans turned gay after Reading so ive been told so hook him up

[cwspellowe]

Friend zone her, tell everyone on here about it every minute of the day, piss her off then get a boat with another lass.

Really? Noone else?

Too subtle?

[the milkman]

Hey wait a second how have I turned gay? Hahahah

And I dont mind giving andy some man love to heal the wounds

[Piggy]

stop being so raaaannk all of you...

just talk to her Andy...she may not want a full blown relationship too...but want to get to know ya slowly...maybe she been hurt too...

lots you dont know but will when you talk like grown ups

[Midnightclub]

You already know my opinion on the matter.. you big bender!

[the milkman]

Piggy the only thing full blow was his splodge over her face

[Matt]

Keep knobing her? Never know you might feel the need for relationship soon enough.



Trust me i got head f*cked by the ex, but I've managed to turn shit around. And have actually found someone that is amazing. Taking shit real slow

Judging by our conversation before Alexis, and your recent FB Status I don't think slow is the word.....

It's been 8 weeks

[puglove]

Lol Andy you woman. Think Emmas right (for once) just go full time bent . Im here for you



No but really . Just keep knobin her as friends see where it goes and get down to feelings when things habe progressed a bit more

[Andy]

@ Willo - This did cross my mind but it's boring.

@ Samass - You're one twisted mo-f*ckah, Come down here and we can tag team her.

@ Andy - I'm the biggest pussy when it comes to talking to women about feelings, My ex used to remind me just how crap I was at expressing myself. I'm also worried that if i do hurt her feelings for any reason then she might not wanna know me. Obviously there are other girls but there's something about this one.

@ Liam - Haaaaaaaaaa,LAD. I'm guessing this is what is gonna happen anyway man. But we shall see if she comes back for some more

@ Jonny - Yeah man - No doubt I'll have all that planned out in my head then pussy out anyway. If you think thats kinda good enough then maybe I had better leave it a while.

@ Mr Pellowe - Not sure if being sarcastic or LAD hahaha! But I know this much... I've been friend zoned a few times and it really really really sucks ass. Women!!

@ Matt - That goes without saying mate. Well Its been 7 - ish months since I was with 'I love you but I'll cheat on you anyway' - so who knows mate. I often change my mind haha.

@ CJ - That is kinda my problem mate... I also think it's a bit too soon to say shit, But I just started liking her for no reason and fairly quickly. Which does beg the question how long it'll be before I want to take it further haaa.

@ Mattcheese - Shes hot, Im hittin it xD

@ Emmmmmmmer - I have found this out... And they ain't all bad. But I just don't understand their logic of doing things and getting things done. Turn gay?? Me and Danny have been having gay relations for a while now. Why do you think we see so much of each other?

@ Kimmie - So did you just destroy Matts input there? HAHA!

@ Cully - I have to agree mate.

@ TheMilkman - I know what everybodys like man. Been here since April, I dont drive and I'm still here X) because of everybody. But yeah I think you're right mate. And what wounds haha. I'm good bruh.

@ Piggy - Its alright dude, I know what these douches are like This is why I love them haha! That is true man. But its hard to get a 18 year old girl to talk like an adult for too long, they start doing my head in haaa.

@ Danny'Douchebag' - Yes, Yes I do. Seeing as we spoke about it at length while in the 'Win Machine'. Dont worry bro, I did listen to you. You're one of the few people I actually do listen to. <3

@ Puglove - You sexy man... You on your way down then? Because you just said you're here for me Giggidy. Yeah man probably will tbh. But at the same time I also dont want to seem heartless and 'only in it for the dick wetting' (Excuse my terminology) Because that could end badly... Plus her family are the penfold's and they are a family of absolute nutters. But she jumped on me the other night, not the other way around.

Cheers for the replys dudes and dudettes. <3

[samass]

As long as this doesn't happen, game!

[Niall]

uninterested in a relationship due to being head screwed by an ex a while back, which I'm fully over now.

Well clearly your not are you otherwise you wouldnt be uninterested! Go for it. see what happens!

[Dangti6]

While it's on a plate take it and go with the flow.

Soon enough she'll find a better bloke, so make the most of it.

If it 'blossoms' in to anything more then great, but don't hold your hopes up. Think about what she's thinking. She's probably just having a bit of fun. If she feels the same, I'm sure it will soon become apparent.

Weston girls are always the worst

[silverzx]

Andy, just keep doing what your doing its obviously working..

[CJ_Derv]

See i have this motto, if i can get in the knickers straight away she goneeeeee!!! BYE BYE

[Eeyore]

tell her whats up. i normally do that and yeh.....