selfish lodger help?

[smanfa]

I have tried being blunt it hasn't worked, she just ends up hiding away and not talking to me, it's almost like she's taking over.. It's hard to say get out now as I know she has no were else to go and she's a friend. I will defently try the deadline thing tho, I know it won't work.. But all I can do is try, shes causing arguments between me and my mum as well it's all too much! Should never of offered to put her up! X