Am I being out of order?

[Eeyore]

thought id chuck my 2p in here..

1 - You've said you would pay for, fullstop... you added IF she couldn't find any spare cash
2 - The spare cash she has got she's going away with her family, thats fair enough...?
3 - You're getting annoyed as she had money, in your mind in put a sigh of relief, then you find out it's going on a family holiday.

I think you should let her crack on, one way or another it will come back - it's only money..

pretty much this. like... she could have gone next year with her family... whats a year? :?