So now I think I understand...

[Kimmie]

You've done well! From a girl's point of view (don't hate me) the fact that she has just so recently split up with her ex means she will need time, regardless of the fact she's said all of that. As much as you want to just get in there and 'seal the deal' so to speak, you'll be in with a far better chance of taking this further if you give her the time to get over her ex. If they were together for a while then it will be hard to let go straight away, and right now she will need a friend more than anything. But, some of the best relationships grow out friendships, instead of rushing straight into things. It's the best way to get to know someone!!

Good luck