19-01-2013, 05:04 PM
(19-01-2013, 01:45 PM)Stephen Wrote: Your alive Thats not a positive.
You have family even if there not ideal They are a major part of the problem, could do without them!
Your a part of the best car forum on the internetz Well ok, I'll give you that one!
You have a 306 Thats certainly NOT a posistive
You have qualifications, Well, I dont really, the C&G and BTEC mean nothing without the NVQ that I dont have. And whats the point anyway? Letters on a peice of paper mean nothing in the real world compared to actual skills and experience.
You have some money. But not enough to be of any use, and without being able to top it up, it's disappearing quickly
Just got to count your blessings.
I'm really close with my mum so it's not just a girl thing.
I think it boils down to your attitude, every suggestion thrown at you, you pull faults at it instead of pulling good things from it.
I'm not trying to have a go. But it's just a destructive frame of mind to have.
I know your not in the best situation and I probably wouldn't swap my problems for yours, even though I have a relatively low life expectancy.
A quote i always like
'pain is inevitable, suffering is optional'
I really do envy your positivity Stephen, not just yours, but I know about some of the problems you have yet I don't think I've ever read you complaining about anything at all.
I just cant see what will be good in the future, I've really been trying to find something to aim for, but all I've done is depressed myself by finding there really isn't anything. It's just a lot of hardwork to eventually die anyway. And I bet if I ask anyone on here why they enjoy life they probably can't tell me, I guess they'll say they spend the majority of thier time doing work that they hate, then coming home and being bored instead. So whats the point of all the effort just for that? They may say 'once a year I enjoy a summer holiday', well its something I'd hate but regardless of that, its one week out of 52, is it really worth enduring the other 51?
Sorry, I know I'm in a depressive mood this evening, I'll give the forum a rest for a tonight.