16-01-2015, 09:48 AM
(15-01-2015, 06:44 PM)procta Wrote: This is pure gold tom! i could give you my life story, as i have had a rough ride when i was young. i tell you tom i not the same person i was 10 years ago!
Well lets hope I'm not the same person in 10 years time!

(15-01-2015, 08:33 PM)Piggy Wrote:(15-01-2015, 06:15 PM)Toms306 Wrote: And you do 30 windows in an hour!?
£1 a window minimum and yes, easily 30 in an hour.
Even if you did 15 an hour, what else you going to do for £15 an hour?! With your car and expenses taken care of!
My biggest day I do about 400 windows. Although thats not a £400 day, about £300 as its one building complex.
Just an idea buddy. Pm me if you wana chat it over
Crikey, you must work faster than me then, takes me a couple of hours to do 7 windows and 2 doors on our house...I might be a bit anal about streaks and drips though.

(15-01-2015, 08:41 PM)THE_Liam Wrote: I really wish I could do something to help you Tom, like Matt I've known you online for 5-6 years now and much as I take the piss out of you savagely (just ask Niall, Grant, Fooby, Dum, Danny, Matt, Kyle, Karl, Steve, SRowell, in fact any of my mates on here or in real life, it just means I like you!), I think you're a grand lad.
I've overcome some heavy-duty shit in my life. I don't go into detail about it, a couple of people on here know about it, my lass knows about it and my friends I've had since primary school do, but if you think it'll help I'll drop you a PM?
Thanks Liam, and I don't mind a bit of piss taking, fortunately I can see the funny side to my situation!

I won't force you to share anything, but if you think I'll benefit from it a PM would be good, I'm always interested in other peoples lives.

(15-01-2015, 08:52 PM)lolsteve Wrote: I can kind of understand the toilet thing as back in secondary school I used to hold it in all day until year 11. That's alot of piss to hold in! stopped drinking during the day to try and ease it a bit which during the summer wasn't good for me. Then I couldn't go no2 with people about or with the idea of people knowing i was going to until uni when I moved in with some great lads who weren't shy and made it seem silly to be shy around guys. Although I still wouldn't go no2 with Ladysteve about for years, now we've moved in together I've kind of gotten over it. Don't make a big song and dance about it by any means but just happens. Even go comfortably at work now and sometimes have a good giggle at the noises people make (is that weird?)
Point being going into different environments and situations can help you adapt. Although my life story is hardly 3rd world problems
Yeah I did the same, and with the food problems I didn't eat either, managed to go through school without eating, drinking or using the loo. Which wasn't great, passed out a few times and kept getting lightheaded and wobbly, particularly in heat or with physical work. Unfortunately college hours were so much longer I didn't have a choice....and I passed out on my second day in a hot workshop trying to tap out a metal conduit lol. But I couldn't go at college so had to walk about 10 minutes into town to some 'quieter' public toilets where it was still hit and miss if I could go or not. The year after I started to be able to go at college, if I walked up the 3rd floor toilets where no-one else could be bothered to go lol. But then I got a car and started having a lot more bowel issues so drove home at lunch times (an extra 25 mile round trip) and since then my public toilet problems have gone back to how they were before. I can't even crap at home when people are walking about or in an adjacent room, have to wait until they've got the TV on loud! I do worry about any long term effects pee-holding will have though, gall stones or similar!

Yeah you're right about adapting to different situations, but I don't adapt quickly or easily, its just something I've gotta keep trying and hope it changes eventually I guess!