Damn, seems that everything I try to do is extremely dangerous lol! If only the sill jacking point was longer we wouldn't have these problems. Good advice on the rear mounting bolt, I will try that but I think the "cup" of my stands might be too deep and it might just end up resting on the edges of the stand cup which would also be dangerous 
Edit: That stand was not intended to be a "middle" stand, I didn't realise it would hold the whole front of the car up.
Edit: That stand was not intended to be a "middle" stand, I didn't realise it would hold the whole front of the car up.