Time for a Fresh Start - Updated Page 3, Jan 2013

[Toms306]

tom why dont you learn to play and instrument? as it will help you unwind. also tom thats what your mums there for to talk to and help you! as you are her son and she will always do the best to help you.

Instruments aren't really my thing tbh, not musical at all, was forced into a few piano lessons that I hated and picked up the guitar I was bought about once and got bored...thats more my sisters department, annoying the f*ck out of everybody with her piano/keyboard and various guitars (even one with 12 strings..I mean whats the point lol!)

And in a way you're right, Mums want what they 'think' is best...which isn't necessarily best. Theres also obviously an element of her not wanting to 'lose' her baby (ok so Im almost 21 and nearly 6ft, but still, you know what mums are like...) so she'll try and put me off as much as possible, adding negativity to my own negativeness - but Im not gonna let her do that this time.

Do it man, move out.
Might as well give it a shot!

Good luck with it!

Cheers Steve.

Come live with me and share my bed mate.

I'll take things off your mind x) haha.

All joking aside.
Fair play if you're actually gonna do it. Worth a try mate.

Sounds ideal, won't be cold in bed anymore...just worried about little things 'popping up' during the night...


But seriously, yeah I'm gonna bite the bullet and go for it I think. Got a month of things to be getting on with - but about March time if I could move out I think the difference will be massive. And hopefully I won't have to keep filling the forum with depressiveness and negativeness (thats what CAR's here for right... )