12-07-2012, 02:44 PM
for real tom, after having read along thru this thread, i think the first thing you should look to trying to sort is your anxiety issues. my ex had pretty bad problems with anxiety, and it did some pretty horrible things to our relationship, but she got help for it, even tho it took her a long time to find the right person with the right diagnosis, and after trying so many different therapists and remedies, literally she tried eveything, and eventually found the right one, and the difference was unreal, literally you could see a change in a week.
obviously it took more than that, and she is still changing, but now shes moved on from the therapist stage, and is working through it on her own, and shes a completely different person now.
have a look around, try and find a specialist and do it for yourself Tom.
good luck to you mate
obviously it took more than that, and she is still changing, but now shes moved on from the therapist stage, and is working through it on her own, and shes a completely different person now.
have a look around, try and find a specialist and do it for yourself Tom.
good luck to you mate
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